人生哲理45条
1. life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.
人生不公平但依然美好。
2. when in doubt, just take the next small step.
当你怀疑时，不妨尝试一小步。
3. life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
人生太短暂，不要把时间浪费在伤害他人上。
4. your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. your friends and parents will. stay in touch.
工作不会在你生病时照顾你，而你的朋友和家人会。所以请时常和他们保持联系。
5. pay off your credit cards every month.
记得每月还清你的信用卡。
6. you don’t have to win every argument. agree to disagree.
不用争赢每一场辩论，试着对不同意见表示赞同。
7. cry with someone. it’s more healing than crying alone.
向他人哭诉比自己暗自哭泣更能疗伤。
8. it’s ok to get angry with god. he can take it.
可以对上帝发火，他会接受的。
9. save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
从你第一份工资开始预备养老金。
10. when it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
一谈及巧克力，抵抗变得无用。
11. make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.
坦然地面对过去，这样它就不会搅乱你的现在。
12 it’s ok to let your children see you cry.
可以让你的孩子看见你哭泣。
13. don’t compare your life to others. you have no idea what their journey is all about.
不用拿你的人生和别人作比较，因为您根本不知道他们人生的全部。
14. if a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.
不要让自己卷入到隐秘的关系之中。
15. everything can change in the blink of an eye. but don’t worry; god never blinks.
事情或许会在眨眼之间发生变化，但是不用担心，上帝从不眨眼。
16. take a deep breath. it calms the mind.
深呼吸，这样能让你平静。
17. get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.
舍去那些无用的、不美的或者无趣的东西。
18. whatever doesn’t kill you really does make you stronger.
那些让你痛不欲生的事情能让你变得更强。
19. it’s never too late to have a happy childhood. but the second one is up to you and no one else.
拥有一个欢乐童年永远都不晚，只是这取决于你而不是别人。
20. when it comes to going after what you love in life, don’t take no for an answer.
追求你所爱，永不放弃。
21. burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. don’t save it for a special occasion. today is special.
点燃蜡烛，铺上漂亮床单，穿上迷人的内衣。不用把这些留给一个特殊的日子，今天就是特别的。
22. over prepare, then go with the flow.
准备过后再随波逐流。
23. be eccentric now. don’t wait for old age to wear purple.
标新立异要趁早，不要等到老了再穿紫色。
24. the most important sex organ is the brain.
最重要的性器官其实是大脑。
25. no one is in charge of your happiness but you.
没人能管控你的幸福，除了你自己。12
26. frame every so-called disaster with these words ‘in five years, will this matter?”。
所谓的灾难往往是用“在五年内，将这个问题……？”这样的词句构建的。
27. always choose life.
永远选择人生。
28. forgive everyone everything.
原谅每个人每件事。
29. what other people think of you is none of your business.
别在意他人如何看你。
30. time heals almost everything. give time, time.
时间能抚平任何伤痕，多给自己一些时间。
31. however good or bad a situation is, it will change.
不管处境好或坏，总会改变的。
32. don’t take yourself so seriously. no one else does.
不要让自己太过严肃，没人这样做。
33. believe in miracles.
相信奇迹。
34. god loves you because of who god is, not because of anything you did or didn’t do.
上帝爱你是因为上帝就是这样，不是因为你做了或者没做什么事情。
35. don’t audit life. show up and make the most of it now.
不要旁听生命，从现在起就展示和做最好的自己。
36. growing old beats the alternative——dying young.
越老越要永葆青春。
37. your children get only one childhood.
你的孩子只有一个童年。
38. all that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
真正重要的是你所爱的。
39. get outside every day. miracles are waiting everywhere.
每天出去走走，奇迹就在身边。
40. if we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d grab ours back.、
如果我们把所有的难题都推在一起并看到其他人的难题，我们就会拿回自己的问题。
41. envy is a waste of time. you already have all you need.
嫉妒其实是浪费时间，因为你已经拥有你所需要的。
42. the best is yet to come.
最好的就是现在的。
43. no matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
不管你是何感想，起床，穿衣然后出去展示自己。
44. yield.
懂得妥协。
45. life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift.
生活虽没有彩带萦绕，但终究是一份礼物。
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